Can't A Guy Wish?

Can't a guy wish that he would find someone? Can't he wake up one morning and say "maybe today's the day I run into her?" Can't he wish for a fairy tale story and a Hollywood ending? Guys, we're taught by society to be tough, strong, and show no emotion. We're not suppose to be into all the lovey dovey stuff. We're supposed to be stubborn and not give a damn. And in many cases, that's exactly what we are. We're tough on the outside to show masculinity, and we show no emotion unless we're in competition with other guys. If a guy shows a soft side than other guys will judge him. As a matter of fact, both the guys and girls will judge him. "Oh he's a pussy." "He's a faggot, and he's soft, I'd never go for him." Face the facts, every guy wishes what is said in the beginning of this paragraph. Just like how every girl wishes too. So let's wish together, and wake up saying, "maybe today's the day." And let's bump into each other, somewhere, some place, at the same time. A guy can sure wish, can't he?

- Meng Yang

I'm not good at this.

I'm not good at this.

I apologize before hand if I do not call you or text you back. Don’t be angry at me if it seems like I’ve lost interest, because I probably have. Don’t hate me if I talk to other girls. Believe me when I say that I’m not doing this on purpose. My commitment to a person is not reliable. I don’t have plans to get close to you, if I do, then that’s just how it’s drawn up. I can’t do relationships and I don’t do relationships. I’m just not good at this. So before we get involved in whatever we’re involved in, I would just like to say I’m sorry. I’m not good at this.